![]() I don’t know the backstory of her life or yours and don’t know if this is the first time anything weird has happened or if there were other smaller things. Other than that it’s possible that the breakup is causing her to have some really severe symptoms of depression and she’s not thinking rationally. To be quite blunt it’s totally possible that she got molested by someone in the family so she doesn’t understand the implications of her behavior. but also that you love her and if she’s been/is being touched by other family members that isn’t okay either. Let her know you’re not comfortable with it and it’s inappropriate because you’re cousins. You can try to calmly ask her why she was doing that. ![]() ![]() Honestly maybe if you want to, just try to see if everything is okay with her. I hope you’re okay and not too freaked out. She’s going to stay for at least one more day before she leaves.įirst thing I wanna say is this is not your fault in any way, you didn’t know what she was trying to do and you never would’ve expected that. She said she might have depression, as she is having suicidal thoughts. Apparently not only did she go through a breakup, her close friend died recently from covid as well. She said that it’s absolutely not normal to have feelings for your cousin. Ok what happened was when she came back she actually broke down and apologized about what she did before I could say anything and she said she did it because she was really comfortable with me and had some feelings. I’m still a bit weirded out and maybe I’m overreacting, but we’re cousins and I found it gross. She doesn’t drink or do drugs I’m pretty sure. I don’t know if she was kidding or being weird. She is currently out right now and I have no idea what to say to her when she comes back. She then got that I wasn’t comfortable at all and then left to her guest room and got dressed to go out. She tried to place my hands on her hips, but I kind of freaked out and put her off my lap. Until she starts to move it a bit from side to side and front to back which kind of weirded me out. I found it really odd, but I guess she was just kidding and shit. I say yes, I have no idea what that meant of course. She then asks me if she can get a better seat. I’m watching an NBA game and then she sits next to me. Fast forward a few days and I wake up in the morning. We’re not very close, but we’re close enough to be good friends. She recently went through a breakup recently and let out a lot of stuff on her mind to me. A visit from the political correctness policeīasically my cousin visited me for just a hangout.This is a place for those that need support. For all concerns about the community moderators will discuss it privately in modmail.īeing uncooperative is a distraction for OP and will be remediated in modmail.īe respectful. Rule 5: We cooperate to build this community. We do not mention non-public people, fellow users, or other subreddits. If a megathread exists, all related posts should be placed there. Do not give advice on posts flaired No Advice Wanted (NAW). Posts should be entirely self-contained text and contain no links.Īll comments must constructively support OP. Any matter OP cannot easily tell or get support from people they personally know is allowed. Posts must seek emotional support for matters directly related to OP and expressed in a way for people to provide it. Promoting, supporting, and recruiting for groups that oppose our goals will also result in a ban. Follow best practices when encountering people at-risk. Slut-shaming, victim-blaming, and body-policing are unsafe actions. This includes but is not limited to content we determine to be sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic, classist, ableist, or intolerant of non-dominant religions. We do not tolerate oppressive attitudes and language. Rule 2: No oppressive attitudes and language. We do not insult, antagonize, interrogate, invalidate, or criticize the original poster (OP), even when not directly addressing OP. If you encounter someone breaking this rule, disengage and report them. We'll listen, and if you want, we'll talk. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told.
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